It's slippery, pleasurable and guaranteed not to be of a youthful nature – the tantric yoni massage. The beauty of it: you can show your partner a whole new dimension of pleasure through this experience.
What does Yoni mean?
The word "yoni" comes from Sanskrit and means "vagina" or "vulva" – the sanctuary of a woman. A sanctuary we should devote ourselves to more often. Here you can read how to massage your sweetheart's vagina so that you burst with pleasure and even female ejaculation is not excluded.
What is a yoni massage?
Yoni massage means the intensive and gentle massage of the vagina. It is part of the holistic Tantra massage. The counterpart to the yoni massage is the lingam massage, the extensive treatment of the penis. Yoni massage stimulates about 8000 nerve endings that end in the genital area of the woman. The pleasure increases slowly and often ends in an ecstatic state. Many women who experience a yoni massage for the first time are overwhelmed by the feelings they are overcome with. The vagina massage can end with or without a happy ending, i.e. orgasm.
How does a yoni massage work?
Before you devote yourself to the vagina of the beloved, first extensively massage her entire body. This can take a good 1 to 1.5 hours. The idea is to relax the woman and slowly awaken her desire. You knead first the back, then the front of the woman with warm oil. Only when she can completely let herself go, you approach the intimate area. There, too, you feel your way at a snail's pace on a neat trail of lube to her most sensitive spots. When you devote yourself to the clitoris or penetrate the vagina to stimulate the G-spot, your beloved has already reached a high level of pleasure. During the professional yoni massage the masseur or masseuse uses latex gloves.
What are the effects of a yoni massage?
However, the aim of the yoni massage is not only short-term pleasure. Both partners benefit from the vagina massage also in the long term. The most important benefits of yoni massage at a glance:
- Fewer fake orgasms: The pampering of the yoni trains the woman's ability to orgasm. During the Tantra massage she gets to know her body in a completely new way. She intensively deals with her erogenous zones and her sensations when touching them. In the best case, the woman manages to completely let herself go and trust her body and also the massaging partner. Because she is not tense during this process, she reaches climax more easily. She takes this ability to relax into the love game with her partner.
- Stress in the relationship decreases: During tantra massage, partners take a lot of time for each other. This strengthens the partnership and leads to less quarrels and misunderstandings outside the bed and to a more loving and gentle contact with each other.
- The woman is happier and more open-minded: A woman who is at peace with her sexuality enjoys sex more and feels more comfortable in her body. This also carries it outwardly. Once a woman has been surprised by the intense experience of a yoni massage, she will be more likely to engage in other sexual adventures.
- Your partner feels better physically: A yoni massage can also have a healing effect. It can, for example, relieve tension or menstrual cramps.
- You have more frequent and better sex: The yoni or lingam massage is a highly erotic experience that not infrequently ends in an ecstatic state – and that is addictive!
Thanks to yoni massage to female ejaculation
The intensive and slow occupation with the vagina of the beloved is the best prerequisite for multiple orgasms and the "squirting", the female ejaculation. A woman squirts only when she is very aroused. This, in turn, is only successful if she is allowed to surrender completely – and that is, after all, the goal of every yoni massage.
With these 6 steps you prepare yourself for the vagina massage
If you ask your partner "Can I massage your vagina?" she will either laugh or look irritated. Because most women are not used to their partner devoting himself to the vagina so intensively and without self-benefit. Many women also feel shame at the thought of. This is often because they can't fully open up to their partner (even if they've been together for a long time). One reason why some women fake orgasm. The causes are many, but the most common reason is that the woman can't relax. Here's how to prepare for the most intimate of relaxation methods:
1. Talk to your partner: You don't have to open the door right away. At the word "vagina massage" many women shy away at first. Tell her that you would like to give her an erotic massage all over her body and ask her if she can imagine it as well.
2. Warm up: Before the massage, taking a shower or bath together can help initiate relaxation.
3. Create a pleasant atmosphere: The atmosphere has to be right so that your beloved can come to rest. A running TV or smartphone have no place in the room. Bring the room to a comfortable temperature beforehand, provide soft lighting (possibly candles) and put on relaxing music.
4. Take your time: A Tantra massage can last up to 2.5 hours. But how quickly a woman can let herself go is very individual. Important: If you are pressed for time, you should postpone the massage or leave the yoni out of it.
5. Put tools at hand: To get in the mood for the massage and to tickle your loved one's senses, you can use soft materials like a silk scarf or feathers. For the body massage you use warmed massage oil, for the yoni massage you use pH-optimized lubricating gel.
6. Pay close attention to the reactions of your loved one: Before and during the massage you should always pay close attention to the reactions of your partner and react sensitively to them. She should never feel like she is getting involved in something she doesn't want to.
The best position for the yoni massage
For the woman to really enjoy the vaginal massage and relax the pelvic floor, she should lie on her back. You can put a pillow under each of your partner's knees. You kneel between her legs.
Instructions for the yoni massage: These are the techniques you should know
Caress her face: This has nothing to do with the vagina? No way! Touching the face is very intimate and opens the way to a woman's heart (and vagina).
Touch her nipples: There is a direct nerve connection from the nipples to the vagina. If you devote yourself to the front of your beloved during the full body massage, you should therefore also pay a lot of attention to the breasts including the nipples.
Circle the yoni: Approach the intimate zone by first stroking and gently kneading the inner thighs and the mons veneris.
Put your hand on: Most women love it when the man first puts his hand protectively on the vagina. This relaxes and builds confidence.
Stroking the vulva from the bottom up: You stimulate blood flow in the yoni by stroking with the flat of your hand from bottom to top several times. At the latest now you should use lubricant.
Play with the labia: You can gently massage the labia with your thumb and forefinger and slowly run along them.
Activate the pearl: Circle very slowly with your fingertips around her clit, tapping it as if you were playing the piano on it with 2 fingers.
Greet the entrance: Gently touch the vaginal entrance, ask before you want to go in. When she is ready, she sucks your finger in as if by magic with her pelvic floor muscles.
Enter the temple: Gently and slowly slide one or 2 fingers into the vagina. The first third of the vagina is where most of the nerve endings are, so stay here for a while. Then start with small circles on the vaginal ceiling. Penetrate the yoni a little further with each circle. Soon you will find the G-spot. Once there, move your fingers as if in a sort of "come-here" motion. Now combine the G-spot massage with a gentle touch on the clitoris.
Give her time: When your beloved has reached orgasm, you should very gently withdraw your fingers and cover her with a cloth. Give her time and space to feel the intense experience.
Bottom line: your sex life will benefit from a yoni massage, too
The Yoni-Massage takes some time, but it has it neatly in itself. Because you can show the beloved through this experience a whole new dimension of her pleasure. You yourself will benefit from more intense sex, a more harmonious and exciting relationship, and you can be sure that your partner's orgasms are genuine. What could be better than making a woman ecstatic? Your partner will think you are a magician.
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