Do you have a pattern when you look for a quick distraction on porn sites? For example, scan for redheads or Latino women, cumshot movies or group orgies? Everyone has their own ideas about what a sex tape needs to be able to do to get their lust going quickly. It's no different for women than it is for men. Ladies also know exactly which sex movies make their panties tingle and which leave them totally cold. We asked around, which sex videos provide high feelings – and the (attention, spoiler!) could also make you hot!
Do women really watch porn alone?
You guessed it long ago: of course women watch porn. The times when they had to be ashamed of their sexual fantasies in front of themselves are long gone. Women are not less curious than men, but they are less open about it (enjoy and keep silent) and get excited by other sex scenes than men. For reasons of curiosity alone, women sometimes surf porn websites (and delete their browser history afterwards – even if this is not sufficient for anonymous surfing). However, they are often put off there at the first click by videos tailored to men's fantasies.
What porn are women into?
But what movie does a woman choose when she feels like having some visual fun? Okay, that she doesn't watch squirt flicks with titles like "Black Cock Down" or "Clinic of Shame" goes without saying. But movies in which the action is intense (just think of S&M games in Fifty Shades of Grey) may also like to be. So when does eroticism end for women and where does smut begin? An answer could be one of Pornhub published statistics give. The trend of users' search results shows that ladies most often search for videos using the term "lesbians". (For men, the term "milf" tops the charts). On place 2 follows "Scissoring", with it a lesbian play kind is meant. Only on place 3 could a male actor come into play: Here is the "threesome. But even in this category, the ladies can keep to themselves. Rank 4 indicates that some women can also like it rough. Here is the "big black penis" (so "Black Cock Down" after all)?). But this search query is followed by "lesbian seduces straight woman". You see, women prefer to watch other women have sex.
What makes porn for women different from porn for men?
So does that mean all women who watch lesbian sex movies are secretly gay? Nope! Although statistics do not distinguish between heterosexual and homosexual users, it is unlikely that most of the women who visit porn websites are lesbians. So the penchant for lesbian porn must have something to do with the portrayal of sex. This is exactly the difference between porn for women and porn for men. Most men care less about plot, authenticity, and characters in porn than women do. Men are concerned with a purposeful portrayal that gets to the point quickly, not with making light of the act. Women, on the other hand, are interested in an emotional presentation, the plot should develop. In lesbian porn, tender touching, intense kissing and intimate sexual intercourse play a major role, while in porn that conforms to the common in-out cliché, lovemaking is wild and uncontrolled. However, this does not mean that women are only into flowery porn. Hardcore scenes may be included, but there will be no screams of pain and neither woman nor man will be humiliated. In sex movies that women like, both sexes have equal rights – unless she's into S&M.
Where to find stylish porn for women?
The offer of porn for women is growing steadily. Women no longer have to click through the usual video platforms to find films that meet their requirements. Many popular porn movies come from female producers. In erotic online stores are available such production, such as from the Swedish director Erika Lust. If you google, you will find platforms that focus on videos for women. Here are some popular examples:
XConfessions
The movies on the site Xconfessions the already mentioned Swedish porn director Erika Lust tell the story of real people. About 85 percent of the performers are female. Short trailers are free. If you want to see everything, you pay a (not quite cheap) membership fee.
Ms Naughty
Under the title "Ms Naughty" hides a lot of material for women. Some of the offers are for free, others are free of charge, for example here.
MakeLoveNotPorn.tv
On this site you will not find slick professional performers, but the woman next door. Also brutal anal sex or other humiliating types of play you look for in vain. In the movies on the Site from MakeLoveNotPorn.tv is real romance, closeness and intimacy conveyed. Members download individual movies and receive an invoice afterwards, prices vary.
Ladycheeky
Ladycheeky Satisfies the quick lust. Countless gifs show intense snapshots of hot sex scenes. The portal has even been awarded with porn awards. Free of charge.
Joybear
The British production company Joybear wants to show realistic sex with equal partners in their movies and still does not renounce the good looks of the actors. There are long foreplay sequences and acts. The membership costs about 17 Euro per month.
Hysterical Literature
The Website of Hysterical Literature falls clearly into the category of erotic art – which makes many women really want to have sex. In the short films the actresses read an excerpt from a book while they are brought to orgasm under the tabletop with finger games or a vibrator. The moaning, eye-rolling and rapid breathing of the readers excites many women more than the direct view of the fingering of the protagonists' private parts. Free of charge.
Sounds of Pleasure
Women are during sex, rather than men, also about other sensory impressions than the sense of touch to get going (keyword: Kopfkino). The site SoundsofPleasures proves that impressively. Here there is nothing to see, but a lot to hear. There are sound recordings of people having sex alone or with partner: for example, kissing and sucking sounds, heavy moaning and dirty talk. Women can take the sexy sound with them everywhere on headphones: to bed, to the subway, to the office. Free of charge.
How to make her watch porn together with you
If you watch porn together instead of alone, you may even be able to do something for your relationship. Because sex movies not only inspire new sexual adventures, they also tell your partner which practices turn your loved one on. Moreover, the shared voyeurism allies – provided you both enjoy it. In order for you to watch porn together with your partner, you have to be very sensitive. Ask her what she thinks of the performance and explain that she gets to choose the movie as she sees fit. If she gets involved, a lot is already gained. Whether your sweetheart is shy about admitting her preferences, you will see at the latest during the selection process: If she chooses a film that corresponds to the classic male cliché, she most likely just wants to do you a favor. Encourage her to choose a movie that she would watch on her own.
This is what happens when you watch porn for women together
Maybe you have already looked into a movie for women yourself. Let us guess: It's quite likely that you've fast-forwarded at some point and finally swapped the flick for a standard porn, annoyed as you are. In fact, it takes what feels like an eternity for the action in women's porn to become tangible. The films play with subtle touches and hints, accompanied by sophisticated music. There is less screaming and moaning and hardly any dialogue, sensuality comes first. For a porn evening for two this is just the thing. After all, you should not only concentrate on the film plot, but also on your beloved – and she has time enough to slowly get your arousal going. Attention: When women's videos get going, they really get into it – and their sweetheart is quickly at 10 on the arousal scale. You'll be surprised at how different this shared video adventure is from your solo porn sessions.
Conclusion: Women like slow sex
You don't need to find out what movies your partner is secretly watching. You won't find any possible competition there anyway. Most women are into lesbian porn because they get turned on by the soulful lovemaking – keyword: slow sex. You can learn from this preference. In fact, you will become a better lover for your partner if you take (even more) time during lovemaking, refrain from artistic sex positions and ask about your partner's needs. If she doesn't come out with it, ask her to choose an erotic movie for the two of you – if she chooses honestly, it's the best chance to understand what really turns her on.
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