Women come to orgasm in very different ways. One of them reaches climax just by stimulating the clitoris, the other one needs additional G-spot massage. But not only between the legs sit the buttons that you can press to catapult the beloved to the peak of pleasure. Indeed, there are women who can reach orgasm by stimulating the breasts and nipples. You have never heard that before? Then it's time! How the "Breastgasm" works and how you can bring your sweetheart to ecstasy with hot nipple games:
nipples are so sensitive like the clitoris
The breasts, especially the nipples, are a more sensitive zone than has long been assumed. A Study in the trade magazine Journal of Sexual Medicine now proves that nipple stimulation activates the same areas in the brain that are stimulated when the tickler and vagina are stimulated.
In another study, which is also in the Journal of Sexual Medicine appeared, 82 percent of all women stated that their desire for sex would be greatly increased by stimulation of the nipples. The reason: a woman's breasts are directly connected to her vagina by nerve impulses and hormones.
Incidentally, smaller breasts are often more sensitive than larger breasts because the nerve endings in them are closer together since they contain less fatty tissue.
Get her to nipple orgasm with these 6 steps
But how exactly should a woman be touched so that stimulation on her breasts brings her to nipple orgasm? Most men do include breasts in foreplay, but often use that to get themselves in the mood. It's only when you spend some time with a woman's breasts that you see what it does to her – and it's amazing!
1. Step to nipple orgasm: admire her breasts
A woman's breasts are the visible embodiment of her femininity. If you will, they are an extension of her heart. This means that the more you adore her breasts, the more you show her that you find her beautiful as a woman. Breasts are sacred in many cultures. But that does not mean that you should stare. Compliment your partner on her breasts and show through gestures that you find her breasts outstandingly beautiful. This is how you make her open up to you and trust you better.
2. Step to the Breastgasm: Get permission
Just touch them? Just don't! With this you immediately destroy the confidence advantage again. Always ask first if you can touch her breasts. Tell your beloved that you would like to devote yourself extensively to her breasts if she likes too.
3. Step to the nipple gasm: kiss her passionately
Your lips at this step still haven't reached your beloved's breasts. Meant is the tingling French kiss. Because the tongue is covered with thousands of highly sensitive nerve endings that are connected to almost every part of the body – including her breasts. A passionate kiss will make your partner's nipples erect. It also stimulates blood flow and the release of hormones in the breasts and vagina. So take your time: the longer and more intense you kiss, the wetter your sweetheart becomes.
4. Step: Increase her anticipation
After getting permission to touch and getting the beloved in the mood with passionate kisses, you may carefully approach the breasts. The emphasis is on "carefully.". Don't touch her nipples right away, but at most stroke them as if by chance – your beloved is still dressed (ideally she is not wearing a bra under her shirt). Devote yourself especially to the sides of the breasts and the line below them. In between, always caress other parts of her body as well. For example, her arms or thighs.
Take your time. Now stroke her nipples from time to time, they should have become really stiff by now. Maybe your partner would like you to take off her top now. Resist the request for a short moment to increase her arousal even more.
5. Step: Get down to business
It's time to take off your sweetheart's shirt. You are aroused and would like to go into full swing right away? Focus on your loved one's breasts and put your own arousal on the back burner for now. With the following techniques, you'll slowly but surely bring your sweetheart to the peak of pleasure:
- Cover the breast with the entire palm of your hand
- Then grab her nipples between two fingers. Ask if she wants it more tender or harder
- Lick with your tongue in circular movements slowly around her nipple. The areola is very sensitive
- Take her nipple between your lips
- Teasingly poke the nipple with your tongue
- Gently suck on her nipple – rather too gently than too forcefully
- Blow gently over the nipples as you exhale
- Use your entire tongue: the soft underside and the rough upper side trigger different sensations
- For an extra kick, you can play with hot and cold: ice cubes, push the blood flow with warming massage oil
- If you like it harder, use sex toys, such as special nipple suckers or nipple clamps
- Take your time and don't change your approach when you feel her getting more and more aroused
6. Step to the nipple orgasm: Do not stress yourself
Your partner does not reach breast orgasm despite extensive licking, sucking and stroking? Do not worry, this does not have to be due to your lover qualities.
Not every woman reacts in the same way to breast stimulation. Sensitivity is also strongly related to her cycle. This means that on some days of the month she can virtually explode from touching her nipples, while on other days she may even find touching her nipples unpleasant. Listen to your loved one's wishes at all times and respect even if she doesn't want to be touched.
But even without nipple orgasm it is worthwhile in any case to devote yourself extensively to the breasts of your partner from time to time. Because that's how you reliably arouse her and make her feel good – and eventually, maybe the breastgasm will be in there too.
Conclusion: The Breastgasm makes sex and the relationship better
How often have you devoted yourself exclusively to the breasts of your beloved during sex? If you can count it on one hand, you should close this gap in your sex repertoire as soon as possible. Because by devoting yourself to your beloved's breast, you're not only proving to her that you're willing to put yourself on the back burner for her pleasure.
You also make her experience a completely new sexual experience. Maybe it won't work the first time. But keep at it, because your beloved has to get used to the caress first – and beautiful breasts deserve your full attention in any case.
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